I was driving along listening to Echhart Tolle's the Power of Now...very insightful....he had just said "Own each moment in your life as though you have chosen it"…He said doing this "would transform your life". I stopped the tape and was thinking about the implications of what he had said. Accept the good things and the bad things that occur every moment of my life just as it is...as though I had chosen it. I started running this over and over through my mind...this would remove the pain of most any unpleasant experience because the pain I feel emotionally is really only from how I am defining the moment. Everything I feel...good or bad...is not about what is actually happening but about the meaning I am applying to it...I repeated this several times...own every moment in my life as though I had chosen it....wanting it to really sink in.
It was about then that I decided to turn into a convenience store...I turned to quickly and hit the sharp edge of a very small curb...but it was like running into a wall...the tire exploded...before I could react my back wheel hit the same curb and there was a second explosion. I came to a stop in the parking lot...people all around were stopped in their tracks...and there I sit in the parking lot...my first thought was "own this moment as if you had chosen it"...my next thought was..."yeah, right"...and then I did.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
George's Tire Shop 2
Normally, my wife and I enjoy driving through the part of town where I had just wiped out two tires. We love the Mexican culture...their love for color...the way they dress up their shops and restaurants as a complete reflection of who they are. I can't help but get hungry as I drive past a seemingly continuous flow of homemade tortillas and tortas and big signs advertising carne asada, fajitas, and tacos. Then there are the numerous small dress shops, jammed packed curio shops, uniquely mexican grocery stores and delicious looking bakeries.
On the curious side there is this fancy dress shop that is connected to a gas station. The owner has a Cinderella-like carriage in the front next to the street with a mannequin wearing a fancy dress...a headless mannequin...you gotta love it!
But tonight was different. I was stranded and it was going to be expensive to get my vehicle running again. I went back to what I had heard right before I ran into the curb. "Choose every moment, good or bad as though you had chosen it". I began to relax and take in the world around me. I started to really look around and take in the people...those working in the nearby stores, some women walking carrying bags of groceries...I enjoyed watching the low riders with their perfectly clean cars and booming bass speakers thump their way up and down the street. I would have missed this if I had stayed angry about messing up my vehicle. If I had not chosen the moment.
On the curious side there is this fancy dress shop that is connected to a gas station. The owner has a Cinderella-like carriage in the front next to the street with a mannequin wearing a fancy dress...a headless mannequin...you gotta love it!
But tonight was different. I was stranded and it was going to be expensive to get my vehicle running again. I went back to what I had heard right before I ran into the curb. "Choose every moment, good or bad as though you had chosen it". I began to relax and take in the world around me. I started to really look around and take in the people...those working in the nearby stores, some women walking carrying bags of groceries...I enjoyed watching the low riders with their perfectly clean cars and booming bass speakers thump their way up and down the street. I would have missed this if I had stayed angry about messing up my vehicle. If I had not chosen the moment.
George's Tire Shop 3
We were preparing to leave my car in front of the convenience store where I had taken on the curb and lost. We were going to send someone for it in the morning when we noticed a used tire shop across the street. I would not have known it was a tire shop had it not been for the huge piles of old tires out front because none of the signs that I could see were in English. There was a guy working out in front so we drove over to ask about some tires. He was young and friendly. Another man, with long hair, walked out on the porch of this older home that at some point had become a business. He just stood there looking at Marsha who was sitting in her pretty red car waiting for me. Because her car was still part way out in the busy street and he was concerned she was going to get hit, he had her pull all the way into his driveway. With that taken care of he smiled and came over to me. I told him about my car which was right across the street and asked if he could get some tires for it the next day. George's son asked me to go get the size off the tires. George offered to walk with me. He looked around and said something about the undesirables in this neighborhood. He had a very strong face framed by long gray hair and a pleasant voice. He had presence...the direct and cautious way he spoke and made eye contact was a little on the fierce side. I instantly felt that I was completely safe as long as this guy was with me. As we walked he said "I think its pretty obvious you are not from this neighborhood." I laughed nervously and said "No...no I'm not." He laughed...big.
Seventy five dollars and about 45 minutes later they had repaired the rims, by beating them into submission...it was really quite amazing to me...they put on two used tires that were better than the ones I had on the car...and I had met two very interesting people that I would have never had an opportunity to meet.
Seventy five dollars and about 45 minutes later they had repaired the rims, by beating them into submission...it was really quite amazing to me...they put on two used tires that were better than the ones I had on the car...and I had met two very interesting people that I would have never had an opportunity to meet.
George's Tire Shop 4
I had a great experience and learned some things about George while waiting for them to replace my tires. I was able to stand close by and watch. As a matter of fact if I moved away George would call me back to see whatever he was doing. Both George and his son were very proud of their work...and George was especially proud of how he reshaped my rims with a hammer. He told me he has been at this location fixing flats since he was 18 years old. During his senior year of high school he had worked for a mainline company fixing flats and doing minor repairs. After graduation George started fixing flats in this very location because, as he says, "back then the money was in tires".
30 years later George is still in the same location...fixing flats and selling used tires. I'm impressed with anyone who does anything for 30 years! I listened as he and his son joked back and forth and I was facinated by their skillful use of the tools...how they handled two customers at the same time and never missed a beat. He told me several jokes while he was working...I liked this one..."Sir, we are as honest as the day is long...have you noticed the days are getting shorter?"
I left Georges Tire Shop inspired. I had met a man who had served his community by fixing flats...changing tires...providing an inexpensive alternative for those who might not be able to purchase new tires today...and is passing on the craft to his son. He does it with a great sense of humor...down to earth conversation....and just plain hard work... my time with them was worth the experience of hitting that curb as well as the quick departure of seventy five dollars.
30 years later George is still in the same location...fixing flats and selling used tires. I'm impressed with anyone who does anything for 30 years! I listened as he and his son joked back and forth and I was facinated by their skillful use of the tools...how they handled two customers at the same time and never missed a beat. He told me several jokes while he was working...I liked this one..."Sir, we are as honest as the day is long...have you noticed the days are getting shorter?"
I left Georges Tire Shop inspired. I had met a man who had served his community by fixing flats...changing tires...providing an inexpensive alternative for those who might not be able to purchase new tires today...and is passing on the craft to his son. He does it with a great sense of humor...down to earth conversation....and just plain hard work... my time with them was worth the experience of hitting that curb as well as the quick departure of seventy five dollars.
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